I am married to a really supportive woman. she knows I am a sex addict and that I am working a recovery program. the other day I said “alright I need to get some step work done” for those who don’t know what step work is, it can take many shapes, in my case it is a series of questions about my addction and its patterns that i have to answer honestly. so guess what she said, “Can i read” … HELL NO, no you can’t. well, I didn’t say hell no, but I said OF COURSE NOT, these are my deepest darkest secrets. 🙂

she was very understanding and walked away and gave me privacy to do my work. aren’t i lucky.